how bad is it that you didn't hear that Cher wasn't actually dead..

I go to bed on Thursday, unaware that Cher, reportedly dead, wasn't...how bad is that that I can survive not being on facebook or twitter...?? LOL

I hate facebook and twitter btw, I use some of it just to stay in touch, but may not be logged in for weeks, even months...how bad is that?

I know, been rough, but I have some good news everyone, I will have my new update up by tonight or in the morning, it looks like it is going up tonight..the past few weeks have tried my patience and vexed me in so many ways..

Not only did my son have his GF over for two weeks, supposedly it was going to be for 3-4 days, then all of a sudden it was 2 weeks, and though I like her, if I never hear or see her again, I would be curious, but not stunned...every word out of her mouth, is douche, or dumbass, or stupid, and I can't live with the negative phrases for very long before becoming saddened and wanting to end something or another..

Then, my daughter, you remember the one? The one that is 30 and can't seem to get it right,,on any note...she decided to leave her BF, an ignorant 20 yo, thief, druggie, and just all around bad person, well, she decided to leave him, took refuge at my house, and after I took her to get her meds, and she partook of all of my goodies, washed her clothes, and got settled, then decided to go back to him on Tuesday, this is the last time and I draw the line...she can store her things here since I have storage buildings, but no longer is this going to happen, I have taken that child in since 98 I couldn't even tell you how many times, and just since 2009 I have helped her move, provided her a residence for months, and just plain took care of her, I am fed up, and for my sanity, I just can't have her moving in and out of my house every other month, time to try and stand on her own, I am kicking her ass out of the nest..

In other news, I have ordered something cute from biggalslingerie.com, going to surprise you with it in a photo set...I wish I could have gotten the free shipping, however, I missed that yesterday...I didn't want to spend the funds since it is custom made just in case I needed them for something else important..

Also, my partner was diagnosed with COPD - chronic obstructive pulmonary disease

It isn't something you can get rid of, it worsens over time, but is sometimes manageable...anyone that is in the know, will know what I am talking about, so not only does he have possible MS, we are having testing done this year, but he is in chronic pain, and now has COPD, nice one...but, he is not smoking, so that won't aggravate it as much...

My son is in his 2nd year of college and the schedule is FBAR...just when I think he will be gone, he shows up home, without warning, he does work, however, since I do a good portion of my stuff during the day, I am winding down around 5 pm CST, which means that if it didn't get done before then, there could be tomorrow...he is taking some of his courses online, so his schedule at school is shortened..

So much for the news front, and yes, the new year started off rocky, but then, I was expecting it to, it wouldn't be my life if it wasn't...

I am going to be adding for real this time, morning coffee chats...where we can shoot the breeze and you can tell me what's on your mind...in the member's area, I am putting my text phone in so you can text me some thoughts...this number is only used for the website...please keep it to texting only at this time, it is a pay as you go phone, however, you can text me from anywhere, it has voice, but the pay as you go plan sux, I chose it though cuz it is Virgin mobile and I have great connection with it...eventually I will upgrade to a anytime, unlimited plan, that will help greatly..

So, yes, I am working on more updates, then what I have been up to, and actual GTG's online, please stay tuned...